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Emotional Abuse vs. Healthy Conflict in a Christian Marriage: How to Tell the Difference - Emotional Abuse 101 | Part 3 [358]
Update: 2025-12-16
Description
In this episode, I walk you through five crucial differences between a healthy Christian marriage and an emotionally abusive one.
🔑 Key Takeaways:
- Healthy marriages = clarity, respect, and growth
- Abusive marriages = confusion, control, and punishment
- If you're constantly walking on eggshells, it's not normal.Â
- God never asked you to sacrifice your soul on the altar of someone else's entitlement.
Read the full show notes and/or ask Natalie a question here
Related Resources:
- Check out the first two parts of this eight-part series: “The 10 Most Subtle Signs of Emotional Abuse in a Christian Marriage” and “The Art of Saying No: Setting Boundaries When You've Been Trained to Say Yes.”Â
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